Today was good overall. We went to church this morning. That was quite the ordeal. We were about two minutes late because it takes so much longer to get anywhere. Most of our family and guests were sitting on the first two rows. Trent was so uncomfortable and emotional about having everyone see him with a walker and not able to get around. My little brother Ben was so cool about it. He was like, "Trent, I will sit out here with you. You don't have to go in there." I really appreciated that. Trent actually made it through sacrament and Sunday School but had to leave before Priesthood. He was so glad so many people came to him and told him they were praying for him. Our former home teacher made such a simple and sincere gesture. My dad told me about it after church. He was pretty emotional as he recounted it. He said that the home teacher came up to Trent not knowing for sure what to say or do but simply asked, "Can I walk with you?" We have seen this from so many people! A seemingly small gesture that speaks volumes as to their concern and generosity.
It was a very teary church block for me today. Hearing our names in every prayer choked me up every time. Our ward is so great! They are so willing to help in any way they can. It really makes me resolve to be better, more compassionate, more willing to do the same for anyone. I spoke with the Bishop for a bit and it really helped to have that time with him.
Even people we don't know are bringing things to us. This afternoon my boss arrived unexpectedly with people from his Bible group and four boxes of food and basic supplies for us. They just plopped it all on the table and left almost as fast as they had come. I was dumbfounded! I had never seen these people in my life and they were so willing to give to us. It is truly amazing the kind of people we share this life with.
The afternoon was pretty good for Trent. The pain seemed mostly under control. He was able to recieve a father's blessing and give a blessing to Mallory too. The other kids opted to get theirs at a later date. I also got a father's blessing and that has seemed to help subside some of my anger at the whole situation. We had some good time to talk about everything and how to make our family stronger through this trial. And, of course, with my Mom around...we ate like kings all day! Overall a pretty good day!
Trent and Holly... your extended family members here are calling to ask how you're doing and how they can help. You are cared for and loved in Idaho. :-)
ReplyDeleteYour boss is amazing, Holly. What a blessing he has been for you guys.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great boss you have, Holly! What good, nice people you guys get to be around! It was good to talk to you and Trent and the kids yesterday. Tell Trent sorry our skype cut out when we were saying goodbye. We wish you the best and love you guys :)
ReplyDeleteThat ward is AMAZING. And what a great boss you have there too. Overall- I think Nebraksa just a pretty good place!
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad to hear that you are surrounded by such wonderful people. It is hard to be on the receiving end sometimes, but it gives others the opportunities to grow through service. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers...we miss you! (We are going to Omaha in June for Tanner's baseball tournament, how far do you live from there?)
ReplyDeleteLife is beyond difficult at times..... But if one were to be having hardships the best place to be is here in Nebraska. There is seriously NO place like here! It has become our second home and we can't bear to leave. My heart is comforted knowing that the love from Nebraska and everywhere else is wrapping you up in their arms. It's amazing the strength we can feel from others. It has been our sole source of making it through each day. Our love for you and your family is strong, and as you know, we are willing to help you in any way we can.
ReplyDeleteTrent & Holly
ReplyDeleteDan and I wanted you to know how much we are thinking about you both and your family. We'll keep praying for you and wishing you the very best. We think you're great! Holly you're a great writer thanks for sharing your thoughts with us. Take care of you too.
love always,